Dolly Korede's Blog

I don't want to believe what Henry told me about Chris is true. I was at home watching a program on TV that fateful day when I heard my phone rang, it was Henry calling me. I picked up the call and scolded him on the phone like we've always done to each other. Henry's voice wasn't as pleasant as it used to be and I tried finding out what the problem was when he hastily told me that we need to see because there's something he needed to tell me. I quickly agreed to see him if that would ease him of his worry. I hurriedly took my bath and wore a simple dress then I rushed to meet him up at a nearby eatery were he asked us to meet. The look on Henry's face was a look of guilt at same time pity, he ordered for a bottle of soft drink for me while he ordered for just water for himself. He started the conversation with "I'm sorry to tell you this" but I decided to summon up courage to tell you the whole truth else my conscience wouldn't be at pea...

You should try as much as you can to always define your relationship from the beginning, know the reason why you are going into that relationship in the first place. A relationship that lacks direction, will be heading to failure sooner than expected. Have you ever used this language, "let's just start first, we'll know where it's taking us?" I'm truly surprised if this is you. An intelligent person wouldn't use such a language no matter the circumstance. There's a difference between deliberately heading to failure and failure coming as a mistake. Let's just assume that you've made such mistakes in the past, you shouldn't let it happen again. I've long stopped allowing such guys come near me for relationship whether I am ready or not. Are you going to keep sucking me dry on every aspect without me knowing where we are heading? What a dumb way to think. I know that you may want to justify yourself with the issue of you not being ...

It's such a pity to know that most young people can no longer differentiate between "lust and love" and as such, fallen into what looks like love. The feeling of love and lust are always very similar but they end up playing differently in achieving it's goal. Before we proceed, let's first see the meaning of "love and lust." Love is a range of strong and positive emotional and mental states. True love doesn't really mean blindness, it means seeing your partners flaws and still accepting the beauty of that person's soul over his/her flaws. Lust is a strong desire for sexual pleasure of a person, and it is mostly triggered by a person's physical look. "THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN GENUINE LOVE &       LUST." ✍️ Love is when your partner has a higher priority over your cravings. This mean that he/she has learnt to prioritize your future relationship over any other craving that isn't healthy for the growth of the the rela...

Have you ever loved someone more than they deserve? Have you ever tried your best to keep someone so dear to you and yet you failed? Have you ever given your all just to make someone feel so happy and special and yet it wasn't appreciated? Have you ever been too conscious and tried using the right words to make someone stay in your life without getting offended, but still all that failed? I guess, you know how punishing it is, to fall in love with someone who doesn't feel same way for you! Love is supposed to be a mutual act between two adults but in some cases, reverse is always the case, whereby the height of one person's love is far above the other who doesn't care about his/her partner's emotional breakdown. "True love is a genuine feeling that exist between two imperfect persons that are ready to love unconditionally, irrespective of any emotional challenge that may occur." True love is patient, caring, kind, selfless, sacrificial, since...

What has love done to you? I can tell you over and over again that love is a very beautiful thing that everyone should experience. I've never been treated beautifully by love, I've been given so many reasons to quit believing love is real but NO I still wouldn't give up because I believe it does exist and it's the greatest. For the fact that you haven't yet experienced it as much as you dream it doesn't mean there isn't someone who wants to love you genuinely. Sometime ago, I wrote about not just having one soulmate. Yes we actually don't have just one soulmate otherwise you should have stopped falling in love after the first person broke your heart. The only time you can boastfully say you have just one soulmate is when you've finally settled down with the right he/she but as long as you are still searching and you'd still fall in love again then it means you don't have just one soulmate until your quest for love is finally achieved when...